Ups and Downs

Assalamualaikum and hye

Straight forward lagi la hari ni eh.

Bad day, I bet, everyone has experienced/fallen/ a day that we feel so bad. Like really bad, really and really bad. Haaa ! yang rasa down tersungkur, taknak bangun dah, yang rasa nak tidur supaya bangun tu dah tak ingat about this bad thing/experience happened to us. how do you define your bad day? as for me, cukuplah dengan terjadi something depan public/ classmate kita, macam kena marah ke, kena tegur ke ape ke, nak nak kena dengan lecturer, padahal memang ternyata dan jelas lagi salah kita. Tapi sentap dia tu alahaiiiiiii muka rasa macam haa nak describe mcm mana tah.

So how do I overcome this?

Lepas kena tegur/kena marah/kena papelah depan public / my bad day :

1.       Just walk away and smile, macam eh wak tak kisah pon kena marah. Laaa korang ape kisah, I pon tak kisah tau, dah dah tak payah buat muka simpati sbb I kena marah
2.     Positive, haa maybe we didn’t give our very best, tak bagi yang paling paling paling baik. Takpe, kata nak belajar kan. Takpe lepas ni mesti diorang semua tak ingat dah.
3.      Eat a lot, eat and eat and eat
4.      Call someone yang you feel comfortable to talk with. Macam I, I suka call one of my classmates yang I takdelah rapat sangat, tapi bukan lah tak baik (hah mcm mana tu) alaaa you all mesti ada this one type of friend yang you rasa selesa nak bercakap. Call dia and flashback balik cerita petang tu, then u bagitau kenapa jadi macam tu, kenapa boleh you buat macam tu and etc. believeee me, ur friend mesti calm u down. Mesti dia cakap , alah biasaa la tu and bla blaa, yang youuu akan rasaaa hah!! Legaaa ! at least she represents all your classmates kan. Haha kenkonon.       
5.       I bila I tengah down, I jarang call my mother sbb mak kot ! mesti dia tahu anak dia tgh down, and I tak nak my mom knows about it. kata dah besar kan, masalah sendiri boleh settle sendiri, dah sendiri yang cari pasal ( small matter mcm case I ni la ye) kalau case lain tu lain cerita. Lepas dah lega baru call, haaa lagi beribu lega dah mcm terbang ke mana ntah perasaan yang down tadi.
6.      Kena banyak motivate diri, cari wisdom words kat google kan, about success. Believe in ourselves. Process of learning ni, mmg bread and butter la kan kena kena marah/tegur ape semua ni.
7.     Bukak laptop, buat balik Kerja yang salah/betulkan balik. Give your very best. Ingat macam mana rasa kena marah. So buat Kerja tu balik and enjoy it

Lepas dah overcome semua tu, baru perasan. Allah, selama ni banyak sangat take things for granted. Patutlah kena marah. Buat Kerja memain, tak ikhlas. Comes another feeling, yang mana, rasa macam I have to prove to my …… that I can do it, it just me that have taken it for granted, I just didn’t do my very best before. Ha !!

Hikmah! Everything happens for a reason kan. Setiap yang terjadi mesti ada hikmah nya . I take it as Hikmah nak suruh jadi rajin sikit, nak suruh buat Kerja tu bersungguh sikit, nak buat Kerja buat bebetol, tak payah sekadar, ha buat dah, siap.

Okay lesson learnt ! J

this is my ways of overcoming my bad day, yours might be slightly different, mind to share, sharing is caring kan !